The vast majority of nudists are either in a committed relationship or are not interested in finding a relationship when they go to a nudist event. Nudist events are for relaxing and having fun, not for searching out mates.
So, how are there nudist couples? Typically there are three scenarios:
1) Two non-nudists meet and get together. They may or may not marry. Later, one of the two discovers nudism and becomes a nudist. Over time (sometimes short, sometimes a very long time) their partner opens up to the idea and joins them at nudist events. They may or may not become a full-fledged nudist, but they will at least attend nudist events with their partner.
2) A nudist meets a non-nudist and they get together. They may or may not marry. The nudist explains what nudism means to their non-nudist partner during the early “get to know each other” phase. Over time (sometimes short, sometimes a very long time) the non-nudist opens up to the idea and joins them at nudist events. They may or may not become a full-fledged nudist, but they will at least attend nudist events with their partner.
3) Two nudists meet and get together. They may or may not marry. Oftentimes they don’t know the other is a nudist until the “get to know each other” phase. Once they realize the other is a nudist, they live a happy nudist lifestyle.
4) Nudist site is also a effective way to find your nudist partner.
Note that #3 is very rare; but it’s not as rare as finding a nudist mate at a nudist event. In 35 years of being a nudist, I’ve never known anyone who has fallen into this category. Every one of my couple nudist friends, and myself included, fall into situation #2.
So, what advice do I give to anyone who asks how they can find a nudist girlfriend or boyfriend? I tell them to find a girlfriend or boyfriend and introduce them to nudism. That, by far, is the most common and most fulfilling route.
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